Why Do I Attract Emotionally Unavailable People? (Attachment & Trauma Patterns)

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Why do you keep attracting emotionally unavailable people — even when you know it doesn’t end well?

In this video, I break down what emotional unavailability actually means through the lens of attachment theory, nervous system patterns, and Internal Family Systems (IFS). We explore why emotional distance can feel like chemistry, how early relational experiences shape who we’re drawn to, and what it takes to begin shifting these patterns.

You’ll learn:

What “emotionally unavailable” really means (and what it doesn’t)

How avoidant attachment strategies develop

Why intensity can feel like love

How intermittent reinforcement impacts your brain

Practical steps to stop over-functioning and start choosing safer connection

If you’ve ever felt like you’re doing all the emotional labor in a relationship, this conversation will help you understand the deeper pattern — without shame or self-blame.

This isn’t about fixing yourself.
It’s about understanding what was learned — so something new becomes possible.
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Olivia Pelts is a Licensed Mental Health Counselor with over a decade of experience specializing in attachment trauma, codependency, and relational repair. She integrates Internal Family Systems (IFS), trauma modalities, and holistic nervous system work to help clients experience deeper emotional safety. Olivia provides therapy intensives in Florida for individuals seeking meaningful, accelerated growth.

You can learn more about Olivia here: https://www.sunshinecitycounseling.co...