How to Raise Middle Schoolers Without Losing Your Mind

Описание: Middle school doesn’t have to be a war zone, and your kid’s big feelings don’t have to derail your life. Megan Saxelby of Wild Feelings has seen it all. From navigating her own adolescence with learning differences to helping middle schoolers (and their parents) thrive instead of just survive. She shares real stories from her classroom and coaching work that show how small shifts in mindset and language can completely change your connection with your kid.

We unpack why so many of us are trapped in the “middle school is impossible” story, how behavior is really a need trying to be met, and what it looks like when you give your child autonomy, belonging, and a sense of purpose. Megan offers practical, digestible steps for parents who want to parent from calm, connection, and clarity, not stress, guilt, or perfectionism. 

By the end, you’ll see how this phase can be one of the most joyful, relationship-building periods of your family life, and why approaching it strategically can leave everyone feeling capable, seen, and relieved.

#parentingtips #middleschool #education #adolescence

✨ Key Takeaways:

Belonging is crucial for adolescents' emotional well-being.

Behavior is often a need trying to be met, not a personal attack.

Repairing relationships after conflict is essential for healthy dynamics.

Modeling silliness can encourage children to embrace playfulness.

Creating a playful environment can help ease tensions at home.

Recognizing the developmental needs of adolescents can improve parenting strategies.

⏰ Timestamps:

00:00 Introduction
04:48 Deconstructing the negative narrative of middle schoolers
08:25 How to shift your mindset and embrace the middle school experience
13:12 Why your middle schooler acts like a total stranger
20:28 When your kid pushes your buttons
38:40 How to fix it when things go sideways
40:29 Turn your home into a place your kid actually wants to be at
48:24 The secret nobody tells you about middle school parenting
48:54 How to work with Megan
50:09 Parting wisdom for surviving and thriving

🔗 Resources Mentioned:

10 to 25: The Science of Motivating Young People by David Yeager: https://www.amazon.com/10-25-Science-...
I Just Want My Kids to Be Happy by Aaron Cooper & Eric Keitel: https://www.amazon.com/Happy-Shouldnt...

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