The REAL Reason People Don't Like You (And It's Not What You Think)

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Have you ever wondered why some people just don't like you, no matter what you do? Or felt exhausted trying to win over people who will never see your value? This video will change everything for you.

In this deeply personal conversation, I'm sharing the liberating truth that saved me from years of heartache and wasted energy: you are not everyone's cup of tea, and that's not just okay—it's actually perfect.

We've been taught that being liked is good and being disliked is bad, but what if that whole framework is wrong? What if the reason people don't like you has almost nothing to do with you at all?

In this video, we'll explore:

✨ Why you're not meant to be liked by everyone (and why that's a good thing)
✨ How to stop wasting your precious energy trying to convince the wrong people of your worth
✨ The projection principle: why people's opinions of you are really about them
✨ How to bring light into the world and attract your people naturally
✨ The art of making people feel safe and loved in your presence
✨ Why boundaries don't make you a bad person (even when they upset others)
✨ How to hold yourself with compassion when people criticize you
✨ The difference between being liked and being manipulative
✨ Why contrast and variety make life beautiful and meaningful
✨ How to find YOUR people instead of trying to be everyone's person

Here's what most people get wrong: they think if someone doesn't like them, they need to change something about themselves. But the truth is, we're all walking around projecting our own experiences, pain, and filters onto everyone we meet. When someone doesn't like you, you're often just the screen they're projecting their own story onto.

But here's what you CAN control: the energy you bring into the world.

People are drawn to those who bring light. We all know what it's like to be around someone who drains the energy from a room versus someone who lifts everyone up. If you go into the world miserable and negative, people won't be drawn to you. But if you bring positivity, curiosity, and genuine interest in others—if you help people feel safe and loved—your people will find you.

This isn't about toxic positivity or pretending everything is perfect. It's about making a conscious choice to be someone who adds to the world instead of taking from it. It's about being genuinely curious about other people, asking questions, really listening, and creating space where people feel safe to be themselves.

One of the most powerful things you can do is help people feel safe. When you make someone feel seen, heard, and valued without judgment—when you let them know it's okay to be imperfect—real connection happens. Your people will recognize that energy and be drawn to it.

And yes, sometimes even when you're bringing light and being kind, you'll still upset people. Because honoring your boundaries, standing in your truth, and taking care of yourself will sometimes disappoint others. And that's okay. That doesn't make you a bad person. You can be kind and honorable and still upset people.

The key is learning to hold yourself with compassion regardless of what others think. True liberation comes from within—from knowing your worth even when others don't see it, from staying soft even when criticized, from remaining curious about feedback without collapsing into shame.

We need contrast in this world. Some people will be your people, and some won't. That's what makes life interesting. That's what helps us figure out who we are. You're not supposed to be everything to everyone.

So stop wasting your time trying to convince people who aren't your people that you have value. They'll miss it completely. Instead, seek to share your path with those who recognize and appreciate your gifts. When you find your people—pour into those relationships. Those are the connections that will sustain you.

You are not everyone's cup of tea. And thank goodness for that. Because if you were, you'd be so diluted trying to please everyone that you'd lose what makes you uniquely you.

Your authenticity, your particular essence—that's your gift. That's what your people are looking for. Not a version of you crafted to offend no one, but the real, messy, imperfect, beautiful you.

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