On Our Best Behavior: The Price Women Pay to Be “Good” with Elise Loehnen | 388

Описание: What if being a “good woman” isn’t actually virtuous — but conditioned? In this episode of This Is Woman’s Work, Nicole Kalil sits down with Elise Loehnen (http://eliseloehnen.substack.com) , New York Times bestselling author of On Our Best Behavior: The Price Women Pay to Be Good (https://www.eliseloehnen.com/onourbes...) , to dismantle the centuries-old rules that still dictate how women are expected to behave, desire, rest, earn, and lead.



Together, they unpack how the seven deadly sins — yes, those — quietly shape modern women’s lives, ambitions, bodies, money stories, and relationships. Pride, envy, greed, sloth, lust… turns out they’ve been weaponized against women for generations, rewarding self-sacrifice and punishing visibility, appetite, and power.



This conversation goes deep — into patriarchy, good-girl conditioning, reputational harm, money shame, envy as information, and why women are often both the enforcers and the casualties of these ancient rules. If you’ve ever felt exhausted by trying to be good, likable, selfless, and low-maintenance all at once… this episode is your permission slip to stop.



Because goodness that costs you yourself isn’t goodness. It’s conditioning.








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Connect with Elise:



Substack: eliseloehnen.substack.com (http://eliseloehnen.substack.com)  



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Book: https://www.eliseloehnen.com/onourbes...



Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast...




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