Why They're Not Choosing You | The Anxious Attachment Belief

Описание: Anxious attachment isn’t caused by the people you date - it’s shaped by your beliefs.
In this video, I explain the real reason they’re not choosing you using the Law of Assumption and how a subconscious belief keeps recreating anxiety in love.

If you experience anxious attachment, relationship anxiety, or keep attracting emotionally unavailable partners, this video will help you understand what’s actually happening beneath the surface - and why it keeps repeating.

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This isn’t surface-level dating advice.
This is self-concept work.

In this video, I break down:

Why anxious attachment is rooted in self-concept, not other people

How the Law of Assumption explains relationship patterns

Why people pull away, ghost, or say “I’m not ready”

How waiting for reassurance creates more anxiety in love

Why you can feel deeply anxious even when someone says they like you

The subconscious belief I call the not chosen wound — and how it forms

Why awareness alone doesn’t stop anxious attachment behaviours

The internal shift that changed every relationship in my life

I also explain why people are mirrors of your internal assumptions, how your nervous system plays a role in anxious attachment, and why changing your self-concept is what actually creates secure love.

If you’ve ever thought:

“Why do they like me but won’t commit?”
“Why do I feel anxious the moment I care?”
“Why does this keep happening in my relationships?”

This video will land deeply.

And if you’re ready to stop understanding this pattern and actually shift it, I’ve created a new masterclass called From Chasing to Chosen.

Inside the masterclass, I guide you through reprogramming the not chosen belief at the subconscious and nervous system level, so you’re no longer reacting, spiralling, or self-abandoning in love and instead begin embodying the version of you who expects to be chosen.

Watch From Chasing to Chosen: https://www.candicetamaracoaching.com...

00:00 Introduction to the Journey of Self-Discovery
02:03 Understanding Self-Concept and the Law of Assumption
05:09 The Impact of the 'Not Chosen' Belief
09:35 Transforming Relationships Through Self-Concept
14:55 Recognizing Patterns in Relationships
19:01 The Role of Family Dynamics
21:44 Reprogramming the 'Not Chosen' Wound
26:22 The Power of EFT Tapping
30:47 Real-Life Transformations and Client Success Stories
35:14 Conclusion and Next Steps

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