Why I Never Trash-Talk My Ex (Even When I Want To)

Описание: Hit that LIKE button and SUBSCRIBE to help this channel grow – every single one matters.

Check out more of my videos here:    / @tonychansingledadlife  

Timestamps:
0:00 - Why boundaries matter with your ex
2:15 - Boundary #1: Kids only, nothing else
4:30 - Boundary #2: Never trash-talk your ex
6:45 - Boundary #3: Keep your private lives private

If you're new to my channel, my name is Tony Chan. I'm a 36-year-old single dad raising two daughters while building wealth, health, and relationships from scratch.

Since my separation, I've 5x'd my net worth, built a 250+ member single dad community, landed my first B2B marketing clients, grown my YouTube to 300+ subscribers, went from chronic health problems to peak condition, and earned multiple corporate promotions while building side income.

How I got here...

1-14 years old: Grew up in government housing on food stamps. Terrible neighborhood. Ghetto schools. No father or mother figure. Started from the bottom – literally.

15 years old: Worked 70+ hours a week at a gas station while going to school. Got paid way below minimum wage in cash. Learned what hard work actually means.

18 years old: Went to University of Houston. Nearly dropped out five times. Kept showing up anyway. The jump from bad schools to a good college nearly broke me.

23 years old: Graduated with high GPA in a useless degree. Determined to just get through it. Miraculously I had zero debt because I worked throughout college to pay off the loans. That mattered more than I knew.

24 years old: Worked my way up from car salesman to market researcher making $42K. Had no idea how to invest, no career direction, and was addicted to video games. I was drifting.

27 years old: Had my first daughter. Fire lit under my belly. Read Tim Ferriss's "The 4-Hour Work Week" and started taking action. Launched a video game podcast (100+ episodes), created a mobile game app, and landed a better job paying $55K.

30 years old: COVID hit. Got laid off. Worst years of my life. Living with my ex and mother-in-law with major relationship problems. Couldn't find work. Got lazy, addicted to video games again. Second daughter was born. Nonstop headaches and stomach pains from the stress.

32 years old: Separated from my ex with two girls, 5 and 2. Made a game plan to regain my confidence and change my life in health, wealth, and relationships. Determined to be a great dad and man – no matter what.

Today: 5x'd my net worth. Built a 250+ member community. Got my first clients. Grew YouTube to 300+. Peak health. Multiple promotions. Side income growing. Kids are thriving. I’m still hungry for more success.

If you've been broke, lost, addicted to distractions, or just spinning your wheels wondering "is this it?" – I've been there. And I'm showing you exactly how I'm building my way out.

This channel is proof that you can go from government housing to building real wealth. From video game addiction to peak performance. From broken relationships to becoming the man your kids are proud of.

Get comfortable being uncomfortable. Build systems. Execute daily. Never stop growing.

Never quit,

Tony