Why Being “Nice” Makes People Disrespect Your Boundaries

Описание: Many kind, empathetic women struggle with people crossing their boundaries.
They say yes when they mean no, feel guilty for setting limits, and attract people who take advantage of their kindness.

In this video, we explore:
• Why “nice girls” attract boundary pushers
• The childhood conditioning that teaches girls to self-abandon
• How trauma and people-pleasing shrink your boundaries
• Why manipulative people test and escalate limits
• Practical re-parenting tools to build strong emotional and physical boundaries

00:00 Introduction.
01:20 Example of how a nice girl responds to a small kindness.
02:00 It mainly happens with lower consciousness people.
02:43 Many times the nice girls are blamed for the consequence.
03:20 Nice girls intentions are not to invite people.
03:48 Nice girls feel, if I am not warm I am rude.
04:20 The people receiving nice girls softness can be predators or people with lower consciousness.
05:44 Your kindness is not the problem, their lower consciousness is.
06:54 Reading through my notes.
07:45 Story time.
09:36 Have you also smiled to an insult?
10:07 How to stop this boundary crossing?
11:02 How do we solve this?
11:54 Again this is not your fault.
12:08 Inner Child beliefs behind this.
12:54 Comparison what you mean and they thought.
13:58 Should you stop being kind?
14:49 Understand the truth! You are not rude for not being overly caring to strangers.
15:21 Predators instincts
16:53 Its not your problem. People in higher consciousness do hold clear boundaries.
17:33 Lets learn how to stop attracting such people and situations.
19:10 Lets upgrade the boundaries now.
19:37 Sacred emotions are for close relations not strangers.
20:20 Final words.
21:16 Don't re-bounce into over compensation 😅
21:32 If you have to interact with them again!

Being kind does not mean being available, tolerant, or self-sacrificing.
Healthy boundaries are not selfish—they are self-respect.

🌸 Learn how to move from nice to grounded, from pleasing to powerful, and from shrinking to expansion.

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