Scapegoat Child: Why You Were Blamed for Everything! You are not the problem, you are a gem.

Описание: Many children grow up being blamed, misunderstood, and treated as the “problem child.” This is known as the scapegoat child role in dysfunctional or narcissistic families.

In this video, I explain:
✨ What a scapegoat child is
✨ Childhood dynamics and emotional trauma
✨ How being the scapegoat affects adulthood
✨ Signs you were the scapegoat child
✨ Healing, re-parenting, and reclaiming self-worth

00:00 Introduction.
00:45 Traits of Scapegoat Child.
01:46 Impact on Adulthood of Scapegoat Child.
03:00 Childhood dynamics of Scapegoat Child.
04:10 Why Scapegoat child role is created in the family.
06:00 Scapegoat child is Emotionally Intelligent which threats the family dynamics.
06:33 Scapegoat child is Manipulation to believe they are the problem.
07:45 Goal post to gain acceptance was always moved.
09:15 Why families feel threatened by scapegoat child.
10:13 Outsiders may think Scapegoat child is the problem as well.
10:57 Truth the close people to family know.
12:45 Scapegoat child is never the problem.
14:00 Only a trusted close friend or Therapist can help them see through the dynamics.
15:43 Why parent don't want to see the right path and change.
19:35 Lack of self worth for Scapegoat child.
20:10 Unfair blame is placed on the scapegoat child.
20:50 Love and support is given only if they comply to the terms and conditions.
21:53 Core trauma wounds which gets created.
22:20 Coping mechanism.
23:05 Called selfish and names unfairly.
23:50 Scapegoat child may be elder or younger child.
24:47 Scapegoat child is the Black sheep of the family.
25:47 More traits of scapegoat child.
28:07 Nervous system of a scapegoat child.
28:40 Eventually some families mature and evolve out of scapegoat dynamics.
29:57 Whats the catch where the families fail to evolve out of this dynamics.
31:33 As Scapegoat child you deserve a life of your own.
32:29 Everyone is capable, no one should carry another adult on their back.
33:22 You also deserve all that you have been giving to everyone.
35:00 Open your eyes for yourself now.

If you were the black sheep of your family, this video is for you. You were never the problem—you were the truth-teller in an unhealthy system.

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