The Shocking Truth | People Pleasing Triggers Avoidants to Leave

Описание: Learn Your Relationship Needs & Build the Best Relationships of Your Life with our COMPLETELY FREE "Discover Your Needs" Course. When You Sign Up for a 7-Day Trial, You Keep This Course for LIFE! (Available for A Limited Time!)
https://attachment.personaldevelopmen...

Do you find yourself bending over backwards in relationships—only to watch your partner pull away? In this video, Thais Gibson reveals why people-pleasing actually drives Dismissive Avoidants further from you, and how to break free from this painful cycle.

Uncover why people-pleasing triggers them, the neuroscience behind fawning, and the practical steps you can take to stop self-abandoning and start thriving instead.

You'll learn:
✅ Why people-pleasing makes Dismissive Avoidants feel smothered
✅ How non-verbal communication signals “my needs don’t matter”
✅ The neuroscience behind fawning, nervous system dysregulation, and avoidance
✅ Why people-pleasing is actually its own hidden form of avoidance
✅ The 3 steps to stop self-abandoning and start showing up authentically
✅ How saying “no” in small ways rewires your relationships and self-worth

Episode Breakdown:
00:00 – Intro
00:37 – 1. People-Pleasing Makes Dismissive Avoidants Feel Smothered
01:02 – 2. Dismissive Avoidants Fear Having Expectations Placed on Them
01:15 – 3. More Than 93% of Communication is Nonverbal
01:49 – 4. Dismissive Avoidants Are Attracted to People With a Strong Sense of Self
04:27 – Discover, Embrace, & Fulfill Your Personal Needs Course Promo
04:54 – The Neuroscience Behind People-Pleasing
06:32 – Step 1: Know Your Needs
06:41 – Step 2: Practice Talking About These Needs to People
08:18 – Step 3: Practice Saying "No” in Small Ways
09:51 – Ancient Wisdom on Fear and Love
11:06 – Conclusion

Meet the Host
Thais Gibson is the founder of The Personal Development School and a world leader in attachment theory. With a Ph.D. and over a dozen certifications, she’s helped more than 70,000 people reprogram their subconscious and build thriving relationships.

Helpful Resources:
🧠 Take the Free Attachment Style Quiz
https://attachment.personaldevelopmen...

📚 Read the Learning Love Book
https://attachment.personaldevelopmen...

🎧 Discover Podcast Episodes
https://attachment.personaldevelopmen...

📝 Read the PDS Blog
https://blog.personaldevelopmentschoo...

Let’s Connect on Socials:
📸 Instagram:   / thepersonaldevelopmentschool  

📘 Facebook:   / thepersonaldevelopmentschool  

🎵 TikTok:   / thaisgibson  

💼 LinkedIn:   / thepersonaldevelopmentschool  

#DismissiveAvoidant #PeoplePleasing #AttachmentStyles #AttachmentTheory #ThaisGibson #PersonalDevelopment #HealingJourney #RelationshipAdvice #Neuroplasticity #Boundaries #SelfLove

➡️ Uncover why Dismissive Avoidants turn away when you’re people-pleasing. Learn how you can move from self-abandonment to self-respect and embrace how authenticity—not overgiving—is the key to secure, lasting relationships.