Your Child Isn’t a Picky Eater. Here’s What’s Really Going On at the Dinner Table with Lena Livinsky

Описание: In this Field Notes conversation, Dr. Rob Downey sits down with speech-language pathologist and holistic feeding specialist, Lena Livinsky to reframe “picky eating” as a whole-body, whole-family issue—less about willpower or “bad behavior,” and more about safety, biology, skills, and environment.
Lena shares how conventional feeding therapy often over-focuses on behavior, and how working through her own child’s selective eating helped her connect the dots: when a child’s nervous system is dysregulated or their gut and sensory systems are off, eating can feel threatening, not nourishing.
She introduces her BLOOM Framework—rooted in connection—to help caregivers zoom out, identify the real bottleneck, and create steady, realistic shifts that help kids feel safe enough to explore food again.

Learn more about Lene here: https://lenalivinsky.com/

Key takeaways
• Connection and nervous system regulation are the “root” of progress—kids can’t “rest and digest” when they don’t feel safe.

• “Picky eating” is often better understood as selective eating with underlying drivers (discomfort, sensory load, stress, gut imbalance).

• Lena’s BLOOM Framework maps the core levers: Balanced health, Learned oral skills, Optimal microbiome, Open exploration, Mealtime boundaries.

• You can do a lot at home before (or alongside) extensive testing: simplify gut disruptors, support circadian/light hygiene, and create low-pressure exposure to food.

If something feels off (limited foods, gagging/choking, food pocketing), trust your gut and seek the right-fit, interdisciplinary support—small changes, started early or late, can still move the needle.

If you have a child (or grandchild) in your life who struggles at the dinner table… this conversation might change how you see everything.