How Avoidants Act Around Their Real Choice vs Just an Option | Megan Weks

Описание: In this powerful talk, Megan Weks dives into the hidden psychology of avoidant attachment to answer one painful question: Why can an avoidant person seem completely unavailable with one partner, yet open, present, and committed with another?

If you've ever felt like you're constantly working to prove your worth, questioning your needs, or stuck in a cycle of mixed signals, this video is for you. We break down the unconscious "sorting system" avoidants use, explaining the critical difference between being someone's "Essential Person" and their "Temporary Person." You'll learn:

Why their behavior isn't about your worth and no amount of "perfect" partnership can change their nervous system's coding .

The 3 key signs you are their priority, including natural rituals, inclusion in their world, and how they react to your needs.

The brutal reality of being an "option" and why space always means vanishing, your needs feel like impositions, and you're kept separate from their real life.

How to stop driving yourself crazy trying to crack the code of their mixed signals and start trusting the data of their behavior.

This isn't about villainizing avoidant individuals—their patterns are rooted in early protective strategies . It's about bringing clarity to a confusing dynamic so you can make empowered choices for your own emotional well-being.

Timestamps:
0:00 🎬 The Confusing Double Standard
2:15 ⚙️ The Unconscious Sorting System
5:40 💔 "Temporary Person" vs. "Essential Person"
8:10 🧠 Nervous System Resonance: The Non-Negotiable Factor
11:30 ✅ 3 Signs You Are a Priority
14:20 🚩 The Reality of Being an Option
16:50 💡 How to Use This Clarity & Choose Yourself

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This content is for educational and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional psychological advice, diagnosis, or treatment. The scenarios discussed are based on common attachment theory frameworks. Individual experiences may vary, and you should consult a qualified mental health professional for personalized guidance regarding your relationships and well-being.