Why Avoidants Create a False Narrative of You

Описание: Why Avoidants Create a False Narrative of You
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If your avoidant partner or ex has created a false version of you, this video explains why it happens and what it means. I break down the psychology behind false narratives.. when avoidants interpret your normal relationship behaviors as threats, label your care as clinginess, and twist your emotions into "too much." This isn't intentional or malicious, but it's a deactivating strategy their nervous system uses to create distance when intimacy feels overwhelming. You'll learn about negative attribution bias, cognitive distortion, projection, and confirmation bias.. the psychological patterns that cause avoidants to see you through a distorted lens, especially after deep connection, during commitment conversations, or when they're stressed and overwhelmed.

This video covers real examples of how avoidants twist texts, social media posts, and everyday actions into evidence for their narrative, why they make everything about them even when it's not, and what you should do when someone is determined to misunderstand you. Whether you're dealing with an avoidant who accused you of being clingy when you gave them space, too demanding when you asked for clarity, or too emotional for having normal feelings.. this will help you understand it's not about you, it's about their unhealed attachment wounds. Learn the difference between healed and unhealed avoidants, why you can't fix their perception, and how to protect your truth when someone creates a villain edit of you.

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