260: How to Turn Your Vulnerability into Your Relationship Superpower - with Ken Page

Описание: In this powerful conversation, renowned therapist and Deeper Dating author Ken Page reveals why vulnerability isn't a weakness to overcome - it's your secret weapon for attracting people who truly see and value you. If you're tired of playing dating games, hiding who you really are, or attracting people who can't handle your authentic self, this episode will completely shift how you approach connection. Plus, you'll see how to bring your authentic self into your existing relationships in a way that keeps you safe, while inviting others to be more real with you too.

You'll discover:

-Why "attractions of deprivation" keep you stuck with the wrong people
-The one question that instantly reveals if someone is right for you
-How to lead with your "core gifts" instead of your protective armor
-Why being more vulnerable actually makes you MORE discerning (not less)

Whether you're single, dating, or in a relationship that needs deeper intimacy, Ken's insights will help you stop exhausting yourself trying to be "enough" for the wrong people and start attracting those who celebrate exactly who you are.

Also - Claim your Free Top 3 Communication Secrets here: https://www.neilsattin.com/relate

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This is Ken's third appearance on Relationship Alive - here's how you can find our previous conversations:

Deeper Dating fundamentals (Episode 30):
https://www.neilsattin.com/dating

Fear of Intimacy (Episode 53) :
https://www.neilsattin.com/dating2

Chapters:
00:00:00 - Introduction: Why Authenticity Matters More Than Ever
00:04:25 - The Paradox: Your Shame Contains Your Greatest Gifts
00:08:30 - The Physics of Attraction: Why Authenticity Actually Works
00:12:37 - Why Pretending Always Backfires
00:16:45 - How Authenticity Leads to Better Sex
00:20:14 - Making Effective Boundaries
00:26:45 - What it FEELS Like to Be Seen for Who You Are
00:33:00 - The Qualities that Lead to a Healthy Relationship
00:35:45 - What If You're Attracted to Someone Who's "Bad" For You?
00:43:50 - How to Lead with Your Core Gifts?
00:52:08 - How Do You Encourage Other People to See the Real You?
00:58:57 - More About Ken's Work
01:00:52 - Self Disclosure from Neil and Ken with One Last Question