Feel SAFE in Relationships Again: 4 Levels of Attachment Healing

Описание: "Feel SAFE in Relationships Again: 4 Levels of Attachment Healing"
Description:
Why does vulnerability feel so UNSAFE? Most people try to heal their attachment wounds by jumping to emotional intensity (Level 3) too quickly, which only reinforces the very pain they are trying to fix.
Your nervous system was wired in relationship, and it needs to rewire the same way—through co-regulation. I’m a therapist, and in this video, I reveal the four essential things that make connection feel safe again, allowing your insecure attachment patterns to finally heal.
Secure attachment is built through repeated, tolerable experiences of safety, collaboration, and repair—not by insight alone. This video breaks down the practical Co-regulation Ladder, a 4-level framework that guides you through building emotional safety, step-by-step:
• Level 1: Self-Regulation—Your ability to calm your nervous system enough to be present.
• Level 2: Micro Co-regulation—Low-intensity connection (like parallel activity or calm presence) without emotional pressure.
• Level 3: Explicit Co-regulation—Directly asking for support without urgency, best done with trained or deeply trustworthy people.
• Level 4: Earned Security—Flexibility and healthy repair, where closeness feels safe and distance is tolerable.
Stop chasing chaotic, unreliable relationships, and start building the internal and external resources you need to feel genuinely SAFE with others.
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TIMESTAMPS
00:00 The problem with jumping to Level 3
00:36 Why the law of co-regulation is key to healing
03:05 Co-Regulation Ladder
03:37 Level 1: Self-Regulation (The foundation)
04:49 Level 2: Micro Co-regulation (Learning safety through low-arousal connection)
05:43 Level 3: Explicit Co-regulation (Direct support and safety protocols)
06:45 Level 4: Earned Security (Flexibility and repair)
07:25 Core Takeaway for healing anxious, avoidant, and disorganized attachment
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#attachmenthealing #coregulation #insecureattachment #nervoussystem #relationshipsafety

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