The Trailing Spouse: The Reinvention Strategy No-One Teaches & How to Build Your Identity Anywhere

Описание: In this conversation, Carlos and Jennifer explore the complexities of life as a spouse in the foreign service, discussing the accountability paradox, the importance of adaptability, and the challenges of maintaining a professional identity while supporting a partner's career. They delve into personal growth, the dynamics of relationships in a foreign context, and the need for policy changes to support spouses. Carlos shares insights on navigating job markets, the emotional aspects of career transitions, and the significance of self-discovery in shaping one's professional journey.


Chapters






00:00 The Role of a Trailing Spouse


04:45 Marsupial Identity and Independence


06:53 Navigating Relationships and Autonomy


07:46 The Science of Relationships


09:32 Proximity vs. Emotional Connection


11:02 Adaptability in Foreign Service Life


13:18 Skills for Success in Foreign Service


14:49 Crafting Your Professional Identity


16:33 Reinventing Yourself in New Environments


17:57 Finding Your Core Interests


19:50 The Journey of Self-Discovery


22:03 Breaking Free from Attachments


22:51 Navigating Personal Growth and Change


24:55 Supporting Diplomatic Families: A Policy Perspective


27:58 Advice and Experiences as a Diplomatic Spouse


32:08 Reflections on Career and Identity


37:08 The Vocation of Diplomacy: A Call to Service






I write more deeply about what I learn from my intervieweesalong with insights from 20+ years as a diplomat and army officer - in my weekly newsletter (https://howtodiplomat.kit.com/profile...) , Diplomatic Dispatches.


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The views expressed in this episode are the personalreflections of the guest. They do not represent the official positions of the UK Foreign Office or any government.


This podcast shares human stories and transferable lessonsfrom diplomacy - not day-to-day operational details.