The Trailing Spouse: The Reinvention Strategy No-One Teaches & How to Build Your Identity Anywhere

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In this conversation, Carlos and Jennifer explore the complexities of life as a spouse in the foreign service, discussing the accountability paradox, the importance of adaptability, and the challenges of maintaining a professional identity while supporting a partner's career. They delve into personal growth, the dynamics of relationships in a foreign context, and the need for policy changes to support spouses. Carlos shares insights on navigating job markets, the emotional aspects of career transitions, and the significance of self-discovery in shaping one's professional journey.

Chapters

00:00 The Role of a Trailing Spouse
04:45 Marsupial Identity and Independence
06:53 Navigating Relationships and Autonomy
07:46 The Science of Relationships
09:32 Proximity vs. Emotional Connection
11:02 Adaptability in Foreign Service Life
13:18 Skills for Success in Foreign Service
14:49 Crafting Your Professional Identity
16:33 Reinventing Yourself in New Environments
17:57 Finding Your Core Interests
19:50 The Journey of Self-Discovery
22:03 Breaking Free from Attachments
22:51 Navigating Personal Growth and Change
24:55 Supporting Diplomatic Families: A Policy Perspective
27:58 Advice and Experiences as a Diplomatic Spouse
32:08 Reflections on Career and Identity
37:08 The Vocation of Diplomacy: A Call to Service