What is your Grief Story?

Описание: Episode Description
“Grief does not get louder because you are weak. It gets louder because it has nowhere to land.”

In this episode of Grieve That Shit, Sharon Brubaker, grief specialist and founder of The Grief School, talks about something most grievers never receive after loss: a true witness to their grief story.

After losing her nephew Austin, Sharon learned that grief is not just sadness. It is the mind and body trying to process something life changing that the world around you quickly moves on from. While everyone else returns to their normal life, the griever often finds themselves living in what Sharon calls the alternate universe of grief.

And when there is no safe place to speak the story out loud, the grief does not disappear.
It loops.
It replays.
It grows louder inside the nervous system.

In this episode, Sharon explains why the brain keeps replaying painful memories after loss, how unspoken grief stays trapped in the body, and why having a witness is one of the most powerful parts of healing.

She also introduces The Story Room, a space created for women to share their grief story out loud in a room of people who understand, listen without judgment, and hold space for the truth of what loss actually feels like.

This conversation is not about fixing grief.
It is about finally giving it a place to land.

Because grief does not need to be corrected.
It needs to be witnessed.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode

Why every griever has a grief story that needs to be told
What happens when grief has no witness
Why the brain keeps replaying painful memories after loss
How silence can keep grief stuck in the nervous system
Why speaking your grief story out loud can begin to shift the pain
What makes the Story Room different from typical grief support spaces
How witnessing someone else’s grief can help you process your own
Questions to Sit With After Listening
You do not need to rush these. Let them sit with you.

When did my grief story actually begin?
Have I had a place where my grief could be spoken without correction or comparison?
What parts of my story have I been editing or keeping quiet?
What is my grief still trying to say?
Homework for You
Write this at the top of a page:

“This is the part of my grief story I have never said out loud.”

Then start writing.

Not the version you tell people.
Not the shortened version.
Not the strong version.

The real one.

Because sometimes the first step in healing grief
is simply letting the story be heard.

Resources + Next Steps

If this episode spoke to you, the place Sharon created for this work is called The Story Room.

It is a guided grief space where women can share their story, be witnessed, and begin processing grief in a room that understands.

The Story Room meets the every Thursday.

👉 Learn more and join here:
https://stan.store/TheGriefSchool