Anxiety’s Tug-of-War: Dr. Doug Mennin on Emotion Regulation Therapy | Dealing With Feelings

Описание: What if anxiety isn’t a signal that something’s wrong with you—
but a sign that you’re being pulled between two parts of yourself?

This week on Dealing With Feelings, I sat down with one of my closest friends and longtime collaborators, Dr. Doug Mennin, professor of clinical psychology at Columbia and creator of Emotion Regulation Therapy.

Doug doesn’t just study anxiety. He helps people live with it in a way that restores agency and clarity—without trying to shut feelings down.

In this episode, we talk about:

Why anxiety peaks when we care deeply about something
How emotional clarity starts with attentional clarity
The myth of “getting rid of” uncomfortable emotions
Doug’s dead bunny metaphor (yes, really… it’ll make sense)
Why allowing conflict inside us can actually lead to calm

If you’ve ever felt pulled in two directions, stuck in a loop of worry, or unsure what your emotions are trying to tell you—this one’s for you.

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