How Bad Do You Want It? The Secret to Real Influence

Описание: If you’ve ever felt stuck because your ambition feels selfish, this episode will flip the script. Real influence doesn’t start with confidence or charisma—it starts with burning desire and clear expectations. In this talk, you’ll learn why “expect nothing” thinking quietly kills your podcast, book, business, or speaking impact before it ever starts. The truth is: great speaking starts long before the mic. It starts when your desire gets refined, purified, and aimed at service—so you can stop chasing validation and start creating real transformation.

We break down why vague desire creates a vague message, and why high-impact communicators decide in advance what they want people to believe, do, and stop tolerating. You’ll also hear the unforgettable “wisdom like air” story that exposes the difference between casual interest and the kind of desire that actually produces results. If you’re a speaker, coach, creator, leader, or faith-based communicator who wants to move people beyond information into action—this episode is for you.

2) What You’ll Learn / Highlights

Why burning desire is the foundation of influence and effective speaking
How expectations shape outcomes (and why “expect nothing” backfires)
The difference between speaking for information vs. transformation
How to pick ONE observable outcome for every talk
The “I want my audience to believe / do / stop” framework
Why vague desire creates vague communication (and weak trust)
How to pursue a good obsession without sacrificing health or family
The Ask–Seek–Knock progression for turning desire into action

3) Chapters (timestamps)

00:00 Intro
00:10 Desire is foundational (speaking starts before the mic)
01:04 The question: How bad do you want it?
02:10 The “wisdom like air” story
05:15 Why expectations matter (podcast/book/business)
06:25 The problem with “desire nothing” thinking
07:05 Marriage + management examples (why no expectations fails)
10:18 Going all-in + side project strategy
12:28 Burning the bridges + obsession
14:19 Purifying desire (service vs ego)
17:10 Ask–Seek–Knock framework
20:25 Dreaming + setting expectations before results
23:07 The 3 outcomes: believe / do / stop
25:02 Why people don’t transform (info vs emotion)
29:34 Why outcomes must be observable
31:49 The danger of too many outcomes
33:14 Simple talk formula + outro

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