Moving On Too Fast Hurts You More

Описание: Most people believe moving on fast is a sign of strength.
In reality, moving on too quickly often causes more damage than the relationship that broke you.

In this video, I break down why people confuse healing with replacing, how trauma bonding keeps people stuck in destructive cycles, and why jumping into the next relationship before doing the inner work leads to deeper emotional pain, worse outcomes, and repeated mistakes.

If you’ve ever rushed into a rebound, situationship, or new relationship to avoid loneliness, silence, or heartbreak, this conversation is for you.

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TIMESTAMPS

00:00 – Moving on fast vs. actually healing
Why distraction feels like progress and why most people never truly heal.

01:45 – Different scenarios of moving too fast after a breakup
Rebounds, baby mama and baby daddy situations, toxic exes, and impulse decisions.

04:30 – Personal story: replacing pain and ending up in danger
A real-life example of how unresolved trauma can put lives at risk.

08:20 – Seeking validation, rebounds, and unresolved trauma
Why looking for comfort in the wrong people always backfires.

10:45 – Red flags people ignore when they don’t heal
Lying, instability, charm without substance, and accepting the bare minimum.

13:10 – Why being alone, self-reflection, and prayer matter
How solitude, accountability, and spiritual grounding prevent repeated cycles.

15:10 – Final message, accountability, and closing thoughts
Why slowing down, healing first, and choosing clarity over impulse changes everything.


Unhealed pain does not disappear.
It transfers.

If you do not heal what broke you, you will bleed on people who did not cut you.



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