I Cut Everyone Off to Protect My Peace (Here's Why)

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Some people don’t miss you — they miss what they were able to get from you.

In this video, I break down why being too nice, too available, and too giving almost broke me mentally, emotionally, and financially. I had to face the hard truth: what I thought were friendships and relationships were really transactional situationships built on access, convenience, and dependency.

When you’re always the one solving problems, bailing people out, lending money, offering advice, and showing up — people stop respecting you and start expecting you. Helping slowly turns into enabling. Support turns into dependency. And before you know it, you’re everyone’s emergency contact while nobody checks on you.

This conversation is for anyone who:
• Feels used instead of appreciated
• Is tired of being everyone’s safety net
• Is labeled “changed” after setting boundaries
• Realized kindness without boundaries attracts parasites
• Is choosing peace, clarity, and growth over access

Being kind is powerful — but being too generous without limits will drain you and delay your own growth.

If you’ve ever had to cut people off to protect your peace, this video will hit home.

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00:00 – You don’t miss me, you miss what I did for you
00:28 – I didn’t change, I moved different
00:55 – When helping turns into enabling
01:25 – Expecting access to your time, money, and energy
01:58 – Becoming everyone’s emergency contact
02:33 – No check-ins, only self-interest
03:05 – Transactional relationships exposed
03:42 – You are more than Apple Pay or Cash App
04:12 – Saving people delays their growth
04:45 – Cutting people off and ignoring the noise
05:20 – Why people get mad when access is cut off
05:58 – They’re not mad you changed — they lost access
06:28 – Losing people but gaining clarity
06:55 – Kindness without boundaries gets exploited
07:25 – People who want to be saved won’t save themselves
07:55 – Final message: choose peace and move forward

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