What Winning Means to Narcissists

Описание: Dr. Tara Palmatier, PsyD - http://www.shrink4men.com
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Everyone loves a winner! Okay sure, but what is winning? You can win the lottery, or other games of chance. But, that’s random dumb luck. To win at sports, chess or competitive quizzes, for example, requires skill, regular practice, strategy and intelligence. Winning friends, admiration and public opinion involves emotional intelligence, personal salesmanship and some form of social attractiveness. You can also “win” by cheating, other forms of deception, seduction, emotional manipulation, con artistry and/or intimidation. And this, is what winning means to narcissists and borderlines.

If you’ve self-respect, integrity and a conscience, you may ask yourself, “Who’d want to win by lying, stealing, manipulating others into feeling sorry for you and/or bullying?”

Someone who only cares about getting what they want. And, will do whatever it takes — including criminal behavior — in order to get it.

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