Why Couples Fight About Communication (It’s Not What You Think)

Описание: Most couples say the same thing when they walk into my office:
“We need help with our communication.”

And they’re not wrong.

Communication touches everything: money, parenting, intimacy, conflict, daily life. But after sitting with many couples, I’ve learned something surprising:

Most couples don’t struggle because they don’t know how to communicate.

They struggle because it stops feeling safe to talk.

In this video, I break down the three levels of communication I see in couples therapy and explain why emotional safety, not better wording, is the real turning point in relationships.

You’ll learn:

The difference between logistical communication and emotional connection
Why talking about feelings isn’t always enough
What real-time vulnerability looks like in a relationship
How emotionally focused therapy (EFT) helps couples feel safe again

If conversations in your relationship often turn into defensiveness, shutdown, or escalation, this video will help you understand why. And more importantly, what actually helps.

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