𝗗𝗮𝘆 𝟭𝟬 𝗜𝗻𝗻𝗲𝗿 𝗛𝗲𝗮𝗹𝗶𝗻𝗴 | 𝗧𝗵𝗲 𝗙𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗦𝗶𝗴𝗻𝘀 𝗼𝗳 𝗧𝗿𝘂𝗲 𝗙𝗼𝗿𝗴𝗶𝘃𝗲𝗻𝗲𝘀𝘀 (𝗛𝗼𝘄 𝘁𝗼 𝗸𝗻𝗼𝘄 𝘆𝗼𝘂'𝘃𝗲 𝗵𝗲𝗮𝗹𝗲𝗱)

Описание: 𝗗𝗮𝘆 𝟭𝟬 𝗜𝗻𝗻𝗲𝗿 𝗛𝗲𝗮𝗹𝗶𝗻𝗴 | 𝗧𝗵𝗲 𝗙𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗦𝗶𝗴𝗻𝘀 𝗼𝗳 𝗧𝗿𝘂𝗲 𝗙𝗼𝗿𝗴𝗶𝘃𝗲𝗻𝗲𝘀𝘀 (𝗛𝗼𝘄 𝘁𝗼 𝗸𝗻𝗼𝘄 𝘆𝗼𝘂'𝘃𝗲 𝗵𝗲𝗮𝗹𝗲𝗱)

𝗖𝗼𝗿𝗲 𝗠𝗲𝘀𝘀𝗮𝗴𝗲
Healing is blocked when we hold onto pain as an excuse for our actions and refuse to shift our focus from the people who hurt us to the God who heals us. True freedom comes through the deliberate choice to forgive, which is releasing others to be released ourselves.

𝗠𝗮𝗶𝗻 𝗣𝗼𝗶𝗻𝘁𝘀
𝟭. 𝗧𝗵𝗲 𝗦𝗵𝗶𝗳𝘁: 𝗙𝗿𝗼𝗺 𝗣𝗮𝗶𝗻 𝘁𝗼 𝗚𝗮𝗶𝗻

Healing requires a deliberate shift in focus.

Stop focusing on: The people who wronged you, the actions they took, the feelings you are feeding.

Start focusing on: God behind the scene. Ask, "What is God doing?" rather than "What did they do?"

Referencing Numbers 21, we must stop looking at the wound and look at the source of healing.

𝟮. 𝗧𝗵𝗲 𝗗𝗲𝗳𝗶𝗻𝗶𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻 𝗼𝗳 𝗙𝗼𝗿𝗴𝗶𝘃𝗲𝗻𝗲𝘀𝘀

Forgiveness is simple in definition (though not always simple in action): It is letting go. It is canceling a debt.

Like the servant in Matthew 18, forgiveness means looking at the record of wrongs you've kept and tearing it up.

Unforgiveness is choosing not to release the debt, demanding that the person pays for the pain they caused.

𝟯. 𝗖𝗼𝗺𝗺𝗼𝗻 𝗠𝗶𝘀𝘂𝗻𝗱𝗲𝗿𝘀𝘁𝗮𝗻𝗱𝗶𝗻𝗴𝘀 𝗔𝗯𝗼𝘂𝘁 𝗙𝗼𝗿𝗴𝗶𝘃𝗲𝗻𝗲𝘀𝘀

𝗜𝘁 𝗶𝘀 𝗻𝗼𝘁 𝗰𝗼𝗻𝗱𝗼𝗻𝗶𝗻𝗴: Forgiving does not mean what happened was right or okay (Isaiah 5:20).

𝗜𝘁 𝗶𝘀 𝗻𝗼𝘁 𝗱𝗲𝗻𝗶𝗮𝗹:It is not minimizing the pain or making excuses for the abuser.

𝗜𝘁 𝗶𝘀 𝗻𝗼𝘁 𝗳𝗼𝗿𝗴𝗲𝘁𝘁𝗶𝗻𝗴: "Forgive and forget" is not biblical. Forgiveness means choosing not to remember and not to remind (Hebrews 8:12).

𝗜𝘁 𝗶𝘀 𝗻𝗼𝘁 𝗶𝗺𝗺𝗲𝗱𝗶𝗮𝘁𝗲 𝗿𝗲𝗰𝗼𝗻𝗰𝗶𝗹𝗶𝗮𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻: Forgiveness is one person releasing the debt. Reconciliation requires trust to be rebuilt. You can forgive someone and still maintain boundaries (2 Timothy 4:14-15).

𝟰. 𝗧𝗵𝗲 𝗙𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗦𝗶𝗴𝗻𝘀 𝗼𝗳 𝗧𝗿𝘂𝗲 𝗙𝗼𝗿𝗴𝗶𝘃𝗲𝗻𝗲𝘀𝘀 (𝗛𝗼𝘄 𝘁𝗼 𝗸𝗻𝗼𝘄 𝘆𝗼𝘂'𝘃𝗲 𝗵𝗲𝗮𝗹𝗲𝗱)

𝟭. 𝗬𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗘𝗺𝗼𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻𝘀 𝗖𝗵𝗮𝗻𝗴𝗲: You are no longer angry, bitter, resentful, or hateful toward the person (Genesis 50:21).

𝟮. 𝗬𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗦𝗽𝗲𝗲𝗰𝗵 𝗖𝗵𝗮𝗻𝗴𝗲𝘀:You no longer speak only negatively about them. You can find something good to say.

𝟯. 𝗬𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗔𝗰𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻𝘀/𝗪𝗶𝘀𝗵𝗲𝘀 𝗖𝗵𝗮𝗻𝗴𝗲: You don't wish them harm. You can wish them well, and you wouldn't celebrate their misfortune.

𝟰. 𝗬𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗠𝗲𝗺𝗼𝗿𝗶𝗲𝘀 𝗖𝗵𝗮𝗻𝗴𝗲: When you remember the person, you no longer feel the sting of anger or pain. You feel neutral or at peace.

𝟱. 𝗧𝗵𝗲 𝗣𝗿𝗮𝗰𝘁𝗶𝗰𝗮𝗹 𝗣𝗮𝘁𝗵 𝘁𝗼 𝗥𝗲𝗹𝗲𝗮𝘀𝗲

𝗔𝗰𝗸𝗻𝗼𝘄𝗹𝗲𝗱𝗴𝗲: Bring that person to God honestly. Tell Him how you feel when you think of them.

𝗔𝘀𝗸 𝗳𝗼𝗿 𝗚𝗿𝗮𝗰𝗲: Pray for your feelings to change. Pray for the person who wronged you (intercede for them as Abigail did for Nabal).

𝗥𝗲𝗹𝗲𝗮𝘀𝗲: Open your hand and declare, "I release you."

𝗥𝗲𝗺𝗲𝗺𝗯𝗲𝗿 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗧𝗿𝘂𝘁𝗵: one who gets released from prison. Unforgiveness imprisons you, not them.

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