“You’re Addicted to Your Own Suffering” — Peter Crone on Trauma, Ego & Freedom

Описание: In this episode of What They Don’t Tell Us, I sit down with Peter Crone, and this became my most personal conversation to date.

I brought Peter on to talk about identity, ego, and the subconscious patterns that keep people stuck. Instead, the conversation turned on me. I read a letter I wrote to myself 12 years ago, and rather than staying in theory, Peter challenged the way I see myself, the pressure I carry, and the identity I did not realize I was protecting. The belief that it is all up to me.

We talk about why self-awareness is not enough if you stop at the “why,” how high performers confuse discipline with control, and why so many capable, driven people are quietly exhausted. We unpack family dynamics, responsibility, surrender, and the difference between something being real and something being true. You will hear the resistance. You will hear the shift.

If you are the strong one, the reliable one, the one who feels responsible for everyone else, this episode will feel personal. You will leave thinking differently about how you show up in your relationships and hopefully feeling lighter in the process.

Because at the end of it all, Peter leaves us with something most people do not hear enough: There is nothing wrong with you.

00:00 – Opening
01:30 – Peter's early life
05:12 – The story that shaped Peter
10:23 – Peter's work: Rewiring the human mind
11:52 – Can self-awareness backfire?
16:55 – Reality vs truth
20:12 – Laziness is a symptom
29:50 – Reading my 12-year-old letter
33:31 – Why weakness makes me uncomfortable
37:15 – The identity I didn’t see
40:18 – Is it actually true that everything is on you?
43:12 – Freedom vs obligation
46:07 – How we manifest conflict without realizing it
51:10 – Why family triggers you back to childhood
54:11 – IVF, control & learning to surrender
56:00 – High performers & the fear of failure
59:30 – The discipline of letting go
1:03:35 – What manifestation really is (and why most get it wrong)
1:08:25 – The addiction to identity
1:12:26 – What they don't tell us

Peter’s 3-month mastermind:
https://www.petercrone.com/mastermind

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