Healing Didn’t Make Me Nicer. It Made Me Clear.

Описание: People think healing makes you nicer.
More agreeable. More approachable. More palatable.

It doesn’t.

In this episode of Kerah Speaks, I talk about the moment someone told me my book “doesn’t give healed” and how that comment had nothing to do with the writing and everything to do with access.

Healing taught me how to stop performing softness.
How to stop people-pleasing.
How to stop abandoning myself to keep the peace.

If my boundaries feel cold to you, that doesn’t mean I’m unhealed.
It means I’m no longer available to dynamics that once drained me.

This episode is about:
• Why healing doesn’t mean being agreeable
• How people confuse boundaries with bitterness
• The entitlement some people feel to the version of you they read or remember
• Letting go of the need to be palatable
• Choosing depth, clarity, and peace over performance

Healing didn’t make me nicer.
It made me honest.
It made me selective.
It made me free.

I am not a licensed therapist or mental health professional. The content shared here reflects my personal experiences, perspectives, and healing journey only. This is not medical, psychological, or therapeutic advice. If you are seeking support for your mental health, please consider reaching out to a licensed therapist or qualified mental health professional.



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