The Door That Closed

Описание: Some of the deepest wounds don’t come from strangers. They come from family, from the people who were supposed to protect you. From the ones who stayed physically present, but emotionally unavailable. The ones who saw what was happening… or sensed it… and still chose silence. Because silence can look like loyalty. It can look like keeping the peace. It can even look like survival. But when you’re the one being harmed, silence doesn’t feel neutral. It feels like abandonment. Like being sacrificed so the family can stay comfortable… so the narrative can stay intact.






In this episode of Born Tired: Where Survival Meets Healing, I share a personal story about what it feels like to grow up knowing someone saw your pain and didn’t intervene. What it does to a child when protection never comes. When the people around you expect endurance instead of safety. This episode is about quiet betrayal inside connection. The grief that comes from realizing no one was coming to save you. The way your body learns to stay alert long after the danger is gone. The way hypervigilance becomes a personality. The way silence becomes habit.


And how, over time, you start to confuse being “easy” with being safe, and being needed with being loved.






We explore what it means to carry trauma in the nervous system — how survival rewires you, how it shapes your identity, your relationships, your voice, and even the way you move through the world. And we talk about what it looks like to reclaim yourself without minimizing what happened… without excusing the harm… and without carrying the shame for choices that were never yours to make.






If you’ve ever carried secrets that weren’t yours…


If you learned to stay quiet to stay safe…


If you grew up inside a bond that required you to endure instead of being protected…


this episode is for you.






This podcast is rooted in lived experience. In growing up in survival mode. In breaking generational patterns that were never meant to be carried forward.  I speak openly about family trauma, estrangement, identity, C-PTSD, and the slow, intentional work of building a life that finally feels like yours after trauma.  Every episode is created for those who carried too much, too early. For the ones who learned to stay quiet to stay safe. For the ones who became strong before they ever felt protected.


Born Tired is a space for cycle breakers, truth tellers, and anyone learning how to rest after a lifetime of bracing. A place where your story is not minimized, your experience is not questioned, and your voice is allowed to exist without explanation.


You don’t need to fix yourself to be here.
You don’t need the right words.
You just need to arrive as you are.


Your voice matters.
Your story matters.
And you are not alone.


Gentle Reminder:
This podcast includes conversations about trauma, family dynamics, mental health, estrangement, and lived experiences. Listener discretion is advised.


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Credits:
Written & narrated by Eirene Torres
Audio production by Carlos Torres
Original music by Carlos Torres


Disclaimer:
Born Tired is a personal storytelling podcast based on lived experience. This content is not a substitute for professional mental health care and does not provide medical or clinical advice. If you are struggling or in crisis, please consider reaching out to a qualified mental health professional or local support services.