162: Losing Strategy #1: Fighting to Be Right (And Why It's Wrecking Your Communication)

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In this episode, Lilly kicks off a 5-part series on losing strategies in communication. She breaks down the first losing strategy: fighting to be right. You’ll learn how prioritizing being right over being connected turns conflict into competition, how your nervous system hijacks this pattern, and what to do instead.


This episode is for you if you find yourself arguing to win instead of understand, if you interrupt or talk over your partner to prove your point, or if you hold onto resentment even after you’ve “agreed” because you still think you’re right.


In this episode, you’ll learn:


What fighting to be right actually is and why it damages connection


How this losing strategy shows up in your nervous system (fight vs freeze)


The behaviors that come with fighting to be right (interrupting, fact-checking, pouncing on mistakes)


Why conflict becomes you versus her instead of both of you versus the problem


Where this strategy came from and what it’s protecting


The questions to ask yourself when you feel the need to be right


How to shift from “How do I win?” to “Can I be curious instead of correct?”


Why a wise nervous system chooses safety over superiority


This episode is for you if:


You find yourself arguing to win instead of understand


You interrupt or rehearse your counterpoints while your partner is talking


You hold onto resentment even after you’ve agreed because you still think you’re right


You want to stop creating winners and losers in your relationship


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This is part 1 of a 5 part series on losing strategies in communication.


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