The Psychology of People Who Are Tired of Carrying Everything

Описание: Most people believe that the "strong ones"—the people who carry the weight of the world—do so because they possess an abundance of energy. But psychologically, you are not carrying everything because you are noble; you are carrying everything because your nervous system interprets "letting go" as a direct threat to your survival.

In this video, we explore:
• The Somatic Weight: Why your shoulders and trapezius muscles are chronically tight (it’s a biological brace against uncertainty).
• Active Inference: How your brain uses "predictive processing" to solve problems before they happen to lower your anxiety.
• The "Competence Trap": Why being high-functioning and reliable is often a trauma response, not a virtue.
• The Cost of Carrying: How being the "anchor" depletes your empathy, ruins intimacy, and creates a "functional" but empty life.
• The Path Home: Understanding that your utility is not the same as your right to exist.

This is for the "strong friend," the "manager of moods," and the person who feels a spike of terror when silence finally arrives. If you have ever felt that delegating a task is physically painful, or if you feel you must "earn" your rest through exhaustion, this analysis is a mirror for your internal experience.

You are not broken for being unable to simply "relax." You are wearing a suit of armor forged in a past crisis that has become the only skin you know how to wear. It kept you safe then, but you are allowed to question if you still need to carry it now.

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