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Описание: If you've ever told yourself, "I just need to stay calm," you've been sold a half-truth.


Because elite performers don't win by being calm.


They win by using emotion as data—and refusing to let it drive the steering wheel.


In this masterclass conversation, I sit down with Mindset and Performance Coach Collin Henderson to unpack what actually separates average performers from elite ones: not talent… not even skill… but the ability to reduce internal interference when pressure spikes—on the first tee, on the back nine, or in the biggest moments in business.


We break down Collin's "4 levels of confidence," the #1 performance killer (FOPO: fear of other people's opinions), why your brain is always trying to keep you safe (even when it sabotages you), and how to build unshakable confidence through identity, self-talk, and a repeatable process.


In this episode, you'll learn:


• Why emotional regulation isn't "staying calm," but staying in control

• How to perform confidently without feeling confident

• Collin's 4 levels of confidence—and why most people get trapped in levels 2–3

• The equation that explains choking under pressure: Talent + Skill – Internal Interference

• How to kill FOPO and stop playing golf (and life) like you're being judged by a panel

• Why identity is the true ceiling—and how to change it

• The simple framework to shift your "don'ts" into "do's" and stop carving failure into your nervous system


Get your pencils ready and start listening.


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More About Collin


Collin Henderson is the founder and CEO of Master Your Mindset, LLC, and one of today's leading voices in mental conditioning. A former two-sport Division I athlete and top-ranked medical sales professional, he left corporate success to coach elite performers full-time. Acclaimed broadcaster Jim Rome calls him "an authority of what matters most — an elite mindset."


Collin has authored seven books, hosts the Master Your Mindset podcast, and has trained #1 NBA draft picks, Heisman finalists, and top performers across pro sports and Fortune 500 companies. His trainings have been utilized by organizations like Nike, Microsoft, Salesforce, Amazon, and Novartis. A proud family man and dad of five, Collin also loves Fruity Pebbles, pizza, Ted Lasso, and cute puppy videos on Instagram.


Learn more about Collin by visiting his website (http://thecollinhenderson.com) .


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High-Performance Hypnotherapy and Mindset Coaching


Paul Salter - known as The Golf Hypnotherapist - is a High-Performance Hypnotherapist and Mindset Coach who leverages hypnosis and powerful subconscious reprogramming techniques to help golfers of all ages and skill levels overcome the mental hazards of their minds so they can shoot lower scores and play to their potential.


He has over 16 years of coaching experience working with high performers in various industries, helping them get unstuck, out of their own way, and unlock their full potential.


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Key Takeaways:


• Emotions are information, not instructions; use them as data without letting them dictate behavior.

• You don't have to feel great to perform great; elite performers execute through uncertainty and discomfort.

• Most people operate with conditional confidence, while unshakable confidence commits without needing results or validation.

• Talent plus skill minus internal interference determines execution probability, not talent alone.

• Fear of other people's opinions (FOPO) quietly sabotages performance, even though others are focused on themselves.

• Negative self-labels reinforce a fixed iden...