🔴What a Narcissist Secretly Wants You to Let Them Do After Discarding You

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Alright, let's dive right into the core topic for today's video. We want to explore something very specific about the Narcissist: what they truly hope you will allow them to do, especially after they have initiated a 'discard'.

Now, for some of you, perhaps when the relationship with a Narcissist finally ended, you were absolutely done. You reached a point where you felt, deeply and completely, that you had endured enough. It was unequivocally over for you. You might have even felt a sense of relief that it concluded when and how it did. Your mindset was one of finality: "I am out. Peace out." And critically, you genuinely exited the situation. You had no desire for further involvement, no looking back. It was finished. Truly and completely done. And honestly, if that describes your experience, that is a truly remarkable and positive outcome. If you were among those who could decisively call it quits and move forward after experiencing this dynamic for the first time, you deserve immense credit.

However, many others, myself included, found themselves in a different pattern. We unfortunately returned to the toxic cycle, experiencing multiple 'doses' of this confusing and damaging behavior from the Narcissist before we finally grasped the true nature of the situation. It took repeated exposures to fully comprehend what was happening, to realize just how disordered this individual truly was, and to understand that this type of relationship and behavior is fundamentally abnormal and unhealthy.

Consider the initial stages of the relationship. You were likely fully immersed in what is often called 'love bombing' – an intense period of flattery, attention, and idealization. This was often coupled with 'future faking', where the Narcissist painted elaborate, compelling pictures of a shared future that they never intended to create. All of these tactics play a significant, impactful role in influencing your thoughts and emotions. The Narcissist uses these strategies as a gateway to manipulate your feelings, and through those manipulated emotions, they gain access to your mind. At its core, this is simply manipulation executed with a high degree of skill and intent.

But let's focus on what happens after the 'discard'. This is a critical point to understand. Here’s a key insight: a 'discard' initiated by a Narcissist is rarely, if ever, a true ending. It's more accurately described as a 'shelving'. When a Narcissist is preparing to 'discard' you, it is highly probable that new sources of Supply, or potentially multiple new sources, are already in place. This is a reality that some of you have likely observed firsthand.

Think about it: a male Narcissist might have been engaging with several other women, sometimes even men. Yes, it happens. And a female Narcissist might have been involved with various other individuals, sometimes including other women. These individuals, for lack of a better term, operate in these complex and often hidden ways.

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