#MenAsALLies
Автор: Laura Toop
Загружено: 2026-02-02
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In this #MenAsALLies conversation, Laura Toop is joined by Dan Glyde, Mark Carolan and Matt Adamson for a grounded discussion about responsibility, silence, and staying present under pressure without self-abandonment.
This isn’t about blame or labels.
It’s about recognising how modern life, work and systems create conditions where silence becomes a coping strategy - and why that silence is rarely neutral.
Together, they explore how stress shows up as withdrawal, why speaking up can feel risky in a judgement-heavy culture, and what becomes possible when people experience spaces that feel safe enough to talk, listen, learn and act.
What we explore:
🔸 Silence as a stress response - not apathy
🔸 Why silence is never neutral, especially in workplaces and systems
🔸 The impact of withdrawal on trust, safety and relationships
🔸 Fear of “getting it wrong” and staying quiet
🔸 Responsibility carried without space - and where it leaks out
🔸 Moving beyond conversation into action
🔸 Why safety must come before certainty
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You are not nothing, and that is a very good place to start.
The answer to everything is all of us, and we’re stronger together.
#MenAsALLies #MensVoices #Leadership #Responsibility #EmotionalSafety #healthymasculinity
Learn more at www.togetherasallies.org
Connect on LinkedIn:
Laura Toop: / laurabridgingthegap
Mark Carolan: / mark-carolan-67092a138
Dan Glyde: / danglydecoach
Matt Adamson: / mattadamsoncoaching
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⏳ Timecoded summary:
⏱️ 00:00 – Welcome & setting the scene
Returning to conversation in a noisy, pressured world.
⏱️ 01:11 – Carrying responsibility with no space
How systems make it easy for voices to disappear.
⏱️ 02:01 – Silence isn’t “nothing”
Why what’s unspoken always leaks out somewhere.
⏱️ 03:21 – Silence as a stress response (Mark)
Withdrawal and going quiet as coping strategies.
⏱️ 05:06 – “I know you’re stressed because you’re really quiet”
How others notice silence before we do.
⏱️ 06:10 – The impact of silence on others
Trust, safety and assumption when someone withdraws.
⏱️ 06:49 – Silence increases risk (Matt)
Why lack of conversation affects safety.
⏱️ 07:34 – Silence and women’s safety
Self-policing and restriction when conversation disappears.
⏱️ 08:32 – Assumptions fill the gaps
Why silence amplifies misunderstanding.
⏱️ 09:07 – Silence hands power to the loudest voices (Dan)
The quiet majority and why nothing changes.
⏱️ 11:09 – Trust and youth voices
“How do I know who a trusted adult is?”
⏱️ 13:44 – Fear of saying the wrong thing
Judgement culture and staying silent to feel safe.
⏱️ 16:41 – Beyond words: conversation as action
Why talk must lead somewhere.
⏱️ 19:11 – Silence as complicity
The corporate parallel and shared responsibility.
⏱️ 21:38 – “You cannot not communicate”
Even silence sends a message.
⏱️ 25:20 – Connect before you correct
Creating conditions for honest dialogue.
⏱️ 26:49 – What changes when space feels safe?
Learning, empathy and shared humanity.
⏱️ 30:13 – Closing reflections
Why safety comes before certainty.
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