Starting Over as Millennial | Reflecting to find Clarity

Описание: Starting over as a millennial isn’t about quitting your job and moving to Bali. It’s about reflecting on what’s actually worked, what hasn’t, and having the guts to admit when you’ve been fighting yourself the entire time.

In this vlog, I break down the uncomfortable truth behind my recent growth: I don’t like being told what to do… yet I’ve been trying to tell other people what they should do based on what worked for me. That contradiction exposed something deeper.

For the past few years, I’ve struggled with:
• Listening too much to other people’s success formulas
• Not trusting my own intuition
• Repeating old patterns that no longer serve me
• Getting stuck in self-diagnosis cycles
• Fighting myself internally while appearing optimistic externally

What worked in the past won’t get you where you want to go next. And sometimes the fear of repeating old behaviors disguises itself as “being strategic” when really it’s avoidance.

I talk about:
– Millennial burnout and identity shifts
– Self trust vs. self sabotage
– ADHD self-diagnosis and mental spirals
– Hyper-independence and finally asking for help
– Starting therapy for the first time
– Letting go of control and delegating emotional weight
– Rewiring negative self-talk
– Moving from problem fixation to solution focus

As a hyper-independent millennial who prides herself on figuring things out alone, starting therapy felt like surrender. Instead, it felt like relief. Delegating half of the mental chaos created space I didn’t realize I was missing.

The real question is this:

Do you actually trust yourself?
Or do you just say you do while fighting yourself every day?

If you’re in your 30s (or close), starting over, questioning your path, navigating ADHD, burnout, or self-doubt... This Is For You.

This channel is about rebuilding identity, clarity, confidence, and direction without victimhood.

Comment below: What are you starting over on right now?