Never Anyone’s First Choice (Psychology Reveals What It Does to Your Brain)

Описание: #Psychology #SecondChoice #NeverFirstChoice

Some people were never rejected — they were simply never chosen first.

Psychology shows that being someone’s second option can deeply shape how the brain processes love, attachment, and self-worth.

This experience doesn’t just hurt emotionally — it quietly rewires how people trust, over give, and protect themselves in relationships.

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#InvisiblePain #TheHumanCircle #PsychologyExplained #EmotionalHealing
#TraumaPsychology #Innerchildhealing

Timeline Chapters

00:00 – The Pain of Never Being First Choice
00:24 – Why Being Second Choice Rewires the Brain
00:40 – The Brain Learns to Expect Replacement
01:14 – Overgiving as a Survival Strategy
01:50 – Independence, Guarding, and Emotional Distance
02:24 – The Truth No One Talks About
03:00 – Final Message

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Resources

Rejection Sensitivity & Anticipatory Rejection
Downey, G. & Feldman, S. (1996) — Rejection Sensitivity and Social

Overgiving & Trauma Response
van der Kolk, B. — The Body Keeps the Score

Emotional Self-Reliance as Defense
Mikulincer & Shaver — Attachment in Adulthood