Alone at 45 but Not Lonely: How God Rewrote My Story

Описание: Have you ever been surrounded by love but still felt completely alone?

That was me on my 45th birthday... two years after my called-off wedding. Instead of celebrating, I chose solitude. No party, no plans, no phone… just me, God, and a simple store-bought cake.

What I thought would be a day of hiding turned into the beginning of a powerful healing God had been waiting to do in my life.

In this video, I’m sharing 4 lessons that solitude taught me after heartbreak...and how they helped me reconnect with myself and my faith, as I start over in my 40s. If you’ve gone through a called‑off wedding, a breakup, or a major life reset and you feel invisible or forgotten, this is for you.

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Timestamps:
0:30 Lesson 1
2:10 Lesson 2
3:00 Lesson 3
4:48 Lesson 4
5:49 Invitation
6:31 Special Announcement

These are the exact lessons God walked me through:

1️⃣ How solitude helped me hear God’s voice more clearly when life felt loud.

2️⃣ What happens when you stop performing for everyone else and finally meet who you really are.

3️⃣ How solitude exposes the places you’ve been abandoning yourself emotionally, mentally, and spiritually.

4️⃣ Why solitude became the space where God started to rewrite my story after my wedding was called off.

If you’re healing after heartbreak, starting over in your 40s, or just tired of feeling like you have to be “strong” all the time, I pray this encourages you to see solitude differently...not as punishment, but as a place where God restores you.

💛 Reflection questions in this video:

• What has the noise been hiding in your life?

• Who are you when no one is expecting anything from you?

• Where have you been abandoning yourself emotionally, mentally, or spiritually?

• What story has heartbreak or setback been telling you—and what truth is God whispering instead?


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📌 Credits & Resources

💻 Editing: CapCut on Mac
📷 Cameras: Sony ZV-1F
🎵 Music: Epidemic Sound – Let It Slide: King Sis
Worth the Wait: King Sis feat Mimmi Bangoura

📖 Scripture Reference: Psalm 46:10

⚠️ Disclaimer

I am not a licensed therapist or mental health professional. Everything I share comes from my personal experience and journey. If you are struggling or ever feel like you may be in harm, please reach out to a licensed professional or call your local emergency line right away. You are not alone, and help is always available. 💛