Why is MLCer Keeping Marriage to Alienator a Secret?

Описание: I found out that my ex-husband gave the alienator a promise ring two days after I filed for divorce to protect myself financially. He bought her $800 in Jewelry three days before the divorce was final and got engaged one month after after it was final—it was a quick divorce ,3 months. He got married four months later in July.2021. He bought her a 7K wedding set, 3K in wedding day gifts, they had a beach wedding, and she had two dresses. There were two-hundred photos in the water and beach. This is nothing he would have ever done in 30 years. He hated pictures. We didn’t one professional family portrait in 30 years. He kept the wedding a secret. They’ll have been married a year at the end of July. I found out 10 months after they were married. This has helped so much with detachment, but I still can’t understand the reason for the secrecy. He’s had a history of Limerence to escape and avoid. This is a whole new level. Is this secrecy part of trying to stay in the fantasy?

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