Your anger isn’t a sign you’re doing this wrong...

Описание: Your anger isn’t a sign you’re doing this wrong
It’s a sign you’re expecting fairness from someone who’s avoiding responsibility.
My ex-husband has now unblocked me on whatsapp as we are trying to be better at co-parenting. We spoke today for the first time in months. I know he’s being controlled by the Alienator as she is very jealous. The conversation went okay, but he is very close to getting angry with me--so easily offended at my responses. He sees himself as the victim, that I’ve been cruel to him. It’s like what he has done to me doesn’t exist, that him divorcing me to be with a 22 year-old?! WTF! I did my best to be calm, but I wanted to scream to him that he’s an asshole! Is this the way forward or not? It makes me so angry that he’s not taking any responsibility in this mess. I need your advice.


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