The Setup: How They Push You Until You Snap

Описание: Reactive Abuse: When the Narcissist Makes YOU Look Like the Abuser. Have you ever been pushed to your breaking point in an argument, only to have the other person suddenly become calm and label you “unstable”? This is called reactive abuse — a manipulation tactic where a narcissist provokes you through gaslighting, micro-criticisms, stonewalling, and emotional baiting until your nervous system snaps into fight-or-flight (limbic hijacking).
Then they use your reaction as proof that you’re the problem. In this video, we break down how narcissistic abuse dysregulates your nervous system, what DARVO (Deny, Attack, Reverse Victim and Offender) looks like in real time, how baiting works in public and private, and why documentation is critical if you’re dealing with smear campaigns or legal manipulation. We also explore the shared fantasy dynamic — the psychological “micro-world” narcissists create during idealization to secure emotional control — and how future faking, intermittent reinforcement, and emotional withdrawal keep you trauma bonded.
If you’ve experienced walking on eggshells, chronic stress symptoms like digestive issues or hair loss, confusion, self-doubt, or guilt after reacting, this video will help you understand what’s happening in your brain and body. You are not crazy. You are not the abuser. You were pushed past capacity. Learn how to recognize bait, use grey rock for protection (not punishment), disengage from circular conversations, and reclaim your clarity. Knowledge breaks the fantasy. Awareness restores power.

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