Dealing with Disappointing College Admissions. What Helps? | Episode 210

Описание: Is your teen feeling disappointed about their college admission results? They’re not alone. In Episode #210, Dr. Lisa and Reena discuss the emotional rollercoaster of college admissions and the harsh realities of how the college process sometimes plays out. They offer compassionate guidance on how to support your child through disappointment, preserve friendships, and maintain perspective. How can you & your child take care of your emotional well-being during this stressful time, even when the college admissions process doesn't go as planned? Dr. Lisa & Reena have answers.

Whether your child is just starting the college search or facing rejections, this episode equips you with the empathy and strategies to guide them through this pivotal life transition.

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The advice provided on this podcast does not constitute or serve as a substitute for professional psychological treatment, therapy, or other types of professional advice or intervention.
If you have concerns about your child’s well being, consult a physician or mental health professional.
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Episode Timestamps:

00:00 - Introduction
02:12 - Listener Letter #1: Navigating competition and comparison in college admissions
08:20 - Supporting your child when their friends get in, but they don't
10:36 - The social media impact on college acceptance celebrations
13:36 - Preserving friendships through the admissions process
14:12 - Maintaining your sanity as a parent during college applications
16:35 - Listener Letter #2: Helping a disappointed teen who refuses their college options
20:09 - Considering transferring schools as an alternative
21:26 - Deciding whether to force your child to attend college
21:53 - Exploring the benefits of a gap year
25:34 - Addressing your own college anxiety as a parent
27:07 - Parenting to Go
28:22 - Next Episode: Parenting with an ex who doesn’t share your values

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