Why Love Feels Draining When You Are Too Aware | Alan Watts

Описание: Why does yêu begin to feel exhausting the more aware you become?
Why does intimacy, once magical and effortless, slowly start to feel heavy, quiet, and demanding?

In this video, we explore a deeper philosophical truth inspired by the teachings and style of Alan Watts: that yêu does not become draining because something is wrong with you — but because awareness removes illusion.

As awareness grows, we begin to see how much of modern yêu is built on unconscious expectations, emotional dependency, and the hidden desire to be completed by another person. What once felt energizing was often illusion, and when illusion dissolves, yêu no longer intoxicates the mind — it becomes calm, honest, and undramatic.

This talk is not about fixing relationships or escaping yêu.
It is about seeing clearly.

Drawing from Eastern philosophy and Alan Watts’ timeless insights, this video explores:

Why awareness changes how yêu feels

How attachment quietly turns yêu into emotional labor

Why quiet yêu feels empty in a culture addicted to emotional intensity

The difference between yêu and psychological dependency

What remains when yêu is no longer used to escape oneself

If yêu has started to feel heavy, distant, or draining — this video is not here to judge or diagnose you. It is here to help you understand what awareness is revealing, and why that clarity, though uncomfortable, is not a failure but a shift.

🎧 This video is meant to be experienced slowly.
Listen, reflect, and allow the ideas to unfold.


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Why does yêu begin to feel exhausting the more aware you become?
Why does intimacy, once magical and effortless, slowly start to feel heavy, quiet, and demanding?

In this video, we explore a deeper philosophical truth inspired by the teachings and style of Alan Watts: that yêu does not become draining beca