ROFA raw Thurs Week5 (2)

Описание: ROFA raw Thurs Week5 Valerie Feb 5 2026

Valerie ran three back-to-back hours that felt like one continuous, layered sermon on uncommon love—the kind that doesn’t keep score, doesn’t require performance, and refuses to let your worst chapters be the last word.
What she actually accomplished:
She modeled radical vulnerability first. She told her own heroin-to-30-years-clean story, prison, fatherless homes, sidewalk hug that rewired her capacity to love. That single act of “I’m not hiding my mess” gave everyone else permission to stop hiding theirs.


She dismantled the performance-based love most of the room grew up with and replaced it with God’s voice speaking directly: “I’ve been waiting for you… judgment seat is actually a mercy seat.”


She took the group through cognitive/emotional work (intrusive thoughts → affirmations, “we diet from what’s eating us,” tears purge the soul) without ever sounding like a therapist lecturing. It felt like family talking around the table.


She held space for real-time conflict (the spitting incident) and turned it into a teaching moment: “Q-tip – Quit Taking It Personal.”


She ended with the elevator-pitch exercise: “Tell your story in 60 seconds.” That’s not just a skill; it’s identity reclamation.



Paper:

ROFA raw Thurs Week5 Valerie Feb 5 2026
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YouTube playlists:

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