Is It Bad to Be Average? | Barry Michels | Interviewed by Tripp Lanier

Описание: Most Men Allow Fear to Get the Best of Them. This Book is Not for Most Men. http://tripplanier.com/book

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Do ever you feel bad when you compare yourself to others?

Would you get pissed if someone called you “average”?

And what’s more important to you: being the best you can be or being better than someone else?

The Tools and Coming Alive co-author Barry Michels is back to discuss the trap of external validation. We’re going to talk about how trying to be better than others is an un-winnable game and how we can learn how to play our own game instead.

In this interview:
— Why seeking external validation through money, sex, and attention is an un-winnable game
— The difference between creating and getting
— What if you were to give up hope that you’ll ever get the external reward you want?
— The huge difference between being the best you can be vs being the best in the world (or industry, community, etc.)
— Why being average is so scary for so many
— How to tell if you’re being a “black hole” or a “sun”
— How to tell if you’re the icky sales guy (that creeps everyone out) or someone who inspires others

About Barry Michels

http://thetoolsbook.com

Barry Michels powered through his undergraduate studies at Harvard, went to law school at the University of California at Berkeley, and spent three years at a white-shoe law firm before disillusionment got the better of him. After a soul-searching time in Europe where he played guitar on street corners, he had a powerful spiritual experience and realized he wanted to be a therapist.

He returned home and got an MSW from the University of Southern California and began his psychotherapy practice in 1986. A few years later, still searching for a psycho-therapeutic technique that would bring his patients true freedom, he attended a seminar held by Phil. Struck by Phil’s commitment to human potential and his unorthodox approach, he began to study with Phil and use The Tools with his patients.


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Topics include: relationships, sex, dating, career, money, power, overcoming fear, fitness, inner game, lifestyle design, and spirituality.