Emotional & Physical Intimacy in the Bedroom Starts With These 3 Questions | Ken Page Part 2

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Show Notes:
In this episode of the Relationship Renovation podcast, Tara and EJ Kerwin continue their dialogue with psychotherapist Ken Page, focusing on "core gifts" and their impact on intimacy and sexuality. Ken explains that core gifts are unique strengths often hidden beneath fear and shame. The discussion covers the importance of emotional safety, the natural role of fear in sexual experiences, and practical exercises like the "tantric hug" to enhance intimacy. The episode underscores the necessity of vulnerability, clear communication, and self-love in fostering deeper connections and healing within relationships.


Timestamps:
Recap of Previous Episode (00:01:17)
EJ reflects on the positive experiences and valuable insights from the previous episode with Ken.

Ken's Insights on Fear and Intimacy (00:03:01)
Ken shares thoughts on how fear is a natural part of sexual experiences, enhancing authenticity.

Understanding Core Gifts (00:04:25)
Ken explains the concept of core gifts and their significance in relationships and intimacy.

The Journey to Discover Core Gifts (00:05:32)
Ken discusses the importance of recognizing shame and vulnerability in discovering core gifts.

Brave Intimacy Adventure (00:06:02)
The conversation emphasizes the need for bravery in exploring one's core gifts and intimacy.

Signaling Emotional Needs (00:08:24)
Exploration of how partners can communicate their emotional needs to each other effectively.

The Importance of Emotional Safety (00:10:11)
Discussion on the fleeting nature of emotions in relationships and the need for emotional safety.

Practices for Deepening Connection (00:11:27)
Ken introduces the "tantric hug" as a practice to enhance intimacy and connection between partners.

Visual Representation of Core Gifts (00:12:06)
Ken shares a visual map illustrating where core gifts lie in the intimacy journey.

Exploring the Gift Zone (00:13:16)
Ken describes the "gift zone" as the space where individuals connect with their core gifts.

Navigating Vulnerability in Relationships (00:16:43)
The conversation addresses the challenges of living authentically and vulnerably in relationships.

Cultivating Sexual Relationships (00:18:51)
Discussion on the intentional efforts needed to develop sexual relationships amidst emotional intimacy.

Discovery of Sexual Core Gifts (00:21:19)
Ken outlines the process of discovering sexual core gifts through specific reflective questions.

What Makes You Feel Safe in Sex? (00:23:17)
Discussion on personal experiences and needs for safety in sexual intimacy.

Presence and Attunement (00:25:18)
The importance of being present and attuned to each other's feelings during intimacy.

Emotional Connection in Intimacy (00:30:06)
How feeling wanted and loved enhances emotional safety and intimacy in relationships.

What Moves You in Sex? (00:30:16)
Introduction to the question of emotional movement during sexual experiences.

Spiritual Love Connection (00:31:30)
The profound emotional connection felt during intimacy, described by one speaker.

The Importance of Emotional Safety (00:32:54)
Discussing how emotional safety enhances intimacy and connection during sexual experiences.

Core Gifts and Intimacy (00:34:15)
Connecting personal core gifts to deeper intimacy and emotional connections in relationships.

Heaven and Hell Analogy (00:35:12)
Using a metaphor to illustrate the importance of sharing and receiving core gifts in relationships.

Seeing Joy in Partners (00:44:49)
The emotional impact of witnessing joy and love in a partner during intimacy.

What Really Turns You On? (00:45:57)
Introducing a question about personal turn-ons in sexual experiences, emphasizing safety and connection.

Exploring Core Gifts (00:47:28)
Discussion on the importance of core gifts in relationships and intimacy.

Emotional Safety in Therapy (00:48:19)
Ken explains the necessity of emotional safety before addressing sexual intimacy.

Understanding Sexual Trauma (00:49:13)
The impact of sexual trauma on intimacy and the importance of reclaiming lost parts.

Bravery in Healing (00:50:13)
Emphasizing the courage required to confront and heal from past traumas.

Daily Practice of the Tantric Hug (00:58:30)
Encouragement to incorporate the tantric hug into daily routines for connection.