6 Mistakes Men Make in The First 90 Days After Separation

Описание: Five months ago, my wife and I separated. Two kids. €500K business. Four employees.

In the first 90 days, I almost destroyed everything.

Most men make fatal mistakes when going through separation - they drink too much, drown themselves in work, or numb the pain. I almost did all of it.

This video breaks down the 6 worst decisions men make after separation and what I did instead to keep my sanity, save my business, and maintain a strong relationship with my daughters.

If you're in those first 90 days right now or heading toward separation, this could save you months (or years) of unnecessary pain.
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⏱️ THE 6 MISTAKES

MISTAKE 1: Drowning Yourself in Work.Why suppressing feelings makes healing take longer + what to do instead
MISTAKE 2: Filling the Void Externally. Dating parties, distractions, and why I said no when my friend invited me out
MISTAKE 3: Alcohol.Why I haven't had a drink in 1.5 years (and why you should cut it during separation)
MISTAKE 4: Making Major Business Decisions. Don't fire employees, change models, or sell your business in the first 90 days
MISTAKE 5: Making Your Ex the Enemy. How being friendly with my still-wife let me go to Date with Destiny and Bangkok
MISTAKE 6: Isolating Yourself. Why I told my team, family, and friends immediately (and why you should too)

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💡 WHAT I DID INSTEAD
✅ Took evenings and weekends off (Pareto principle - vital few)
✅ Called friends, mom, dad - processed feelings OUT LOUD
✅ Went on walks instead of parties
✅ Cut alcohol completely
✅ Delegated more in business (focused on essential work only)
✅ Stayed friendly with my still-wife (no confrontation mode)
✅ Got help immediately (family, coach, Tony Robbins Date with Destiny)
✅ Told my team the truth (they appreciated the vulnerability)

Result: 5 months in, I'm in a good state. Business thriving. Strong relationship with daughters. Harmonious co-parenting.
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📌 WHO THIS IS FOR
Business owners going through separation who are:
In the first 90 days (critical window)
Tempted to work 24/7 to numb the pain
Thinking about making big business decisions
Isolated and not telling anyone
Drinking more than usual
Fighting with their ex constantly
If that's you - watch this before you make decisions you'll regret.
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📌 ABOUT ME

I'm Julian Murrell: business owner, father of two, 5 months into separation.

I built a €500K legal services company while my marriage was ending. Through Tony Robbins' Date with Destiny, coaching, and brutal honesty, I learned how to navigate the crisis without destroying everything.
Now I help business owners transform separation from crisis into breakthrough.

🔗 Work With Me: https://julianmurrell.com
📧 Email: [email protected]
📍 Based in: Berlin, Germany

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