Let them theory | How to stop WORRYING if they'll cheat

Описание: In this video I talk about the secret on how to stop being so jealous and controlling in your relationships

This secret is the "LET THEM THEORY"

Which essentially means: Don’t control them …
just let them do what they want

You might be thinking "WHAT THE HECK ARE YOU TALKING ABOUT JANETTE????"

So many us try to micromanage and control someone else’s life

When all that does is bring extra stress and emotional turbulence in your life

AND I’ve been guilty of this …
Telling my bf he shouldnt do this
Shouldn’t do that
He’s doing something the wrong way

Now don't get me wrong I'm not saying don't set your boundaries ...

I'm saying set your boundaries clarify what your standards are and respect them enough to trust that they will follow through with actions that aligns with what ya'll discussed about

Let them do what they want and CHOOSE whether or not you want to continue being with them

They’re so much peace in just letting go and not trying to force someone to be someone they aren’t

If you want to break out of the cycle of constant jealousy and worrying then DM "Control" to my instagram and we can work 1:1 ◡̈
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