350: Your Partner Can Be The Problem

Описание: In this episode of the Nacho Kids Podcast, Lori sits down with Jackie Faber to tackle one of the toughest challenges in blended families: losing yourself in the blend and navigating double standards. 🤯

Jackie opens up about her journey as both a bio mom and stepmom, revealing how Nacho Kids helped her break free from cycles of self-abandonment and guilt. Together, the duo dives deep into common pitfalls like over-functioning, guilty parent syndrome, partner problems versus parenting problems, and the exhausting pursuit of “fairness” in stepfamily life. 💔

You'll hear honest stories about:
Feeling pressure to care for your partner's kids while they don't reciprocate for yours

Resentment sparked by mismatched parenting styles and unequal treatment

The tricky task of handling finances, gift-giving, and household responsibilities in blended homes

Discovering the true sources of frustration—spoiler alert: it's often the adults, not the kids!

Why boundaries and clear communication are absolute musts to avoid burnout 😥

Lori and Jackie discuss why it’s okay to prioritize yourself, debunk the myth that self-care is selfish, and talk about how forming a healthy identity outside of your family actually benefits everyone. They also share actionable tips for managing guilt, setting limits, and making choices that support happier relationships with your partner, stepkids, and, most importantly, yourself.

Whether you’re a bio parent, stepparent, or thinking about blending families in the future, this candid conversation delivers relatable stories, real-world advice, and plenty of aha moments for anyone navigating the complex world of stepfamily life. Blending is messy, but you don’t have to lose yourself in the process!

Tune in for inspiration, laughs, and smart strategies to help YOU nacho your way to a more balanced, fulfilling family experience. 🌟

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