When a Man Hurts You, Confuse Him Like This | Do THIS Instead of Chasing ❤️‍🩹🧠 | Shi Heng Yi Wisdom

Описание: When someone hurts you, your mind wants answers… and your heart wants relief. But chasing doesn’t bring peace—it trains the other person that your boundaries don’t matter. In this talk, you’ll learn a calm, disciplined response that protects your dignity, breaks the emotional loop, and helps you take your power back without games, drama, or begging.

This message is for anyone who feels stuck in overthinking, over-texting, and over-giving—especially when respect and consistency are missing. If you’ve ever typed a long message with shaking hands, reread old chats, or tried to “fix” someone’s coldness with more love… this is your reset.

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⚠️ Disclaimer: This is fan-made, unofficial content and is not affiliated with or endorsed by Shi Heng Yi or any organization. The narration/voice is not his and the script is original, created for educational and motivational purposes.

TIMESTAMPS (27:23)
00:00 The moment you get hurt (and the urge to chase)
01:18 Why chasing kills your power
02:42 “Confuse him” the right way: stop being predictable
04:10 The pause that changes everything
05:33 Mistake vs pattern (know what you’re dealing with)
07:02 Stop arguing with behavior—read it
08:26 Withdraw your emotional access (no drama, just discipline)
10:01 The nervous system trap: pain → hope → pain
11:44 The clean boundary: simple words, strong energy
13:18 When he comes back like nothing happened (the test)
15:06 Polite, calm, not available for disrespect
16:52 Consistency ,apologie,,promises
18:24 Your self-respect must be louder than your feelings
20:05 Stop romanticizing mixed signals
21:41 Build a life that doesn’t collapse when he pulls away
23:12 The power move: observe, don’t react
24:50 The inner script to stop chasing
26:10 Choose peace over obsession (return to yourself)
27:23 End