Life, Sex, Fears, First Impressions, Bad Dates & More [Interview with Harris O'Malley]

Описание: What happens when a self-proclaimed geek reverse-engineers the tactics from the Pickup Artist community to start building authentic and genuine relationship? Find out in today's interview with the one and only, Harris O'Malley aka Dr. Nerdlove!

Since 2011, Harris O'Malley has been providing dating coaching to self-proclaimed geeks from all walks of life. He's written for The Huffington Post, Wired, Buzzfeed, New York Magazine, Lifehacker and many more.

In one of my absolute favorite interviews, we discussed first impressions, dating, persuasion, social anxieties, overcoming fears and limiting beliefs, terrible first dates, and so much more.

Favorite Quote: "It's really like a jedi-mind trick. The best way to get someone to like you is to go into the conversation assuming that they already do. Because attitude is destiny and that way you're priming yourself to see everything in the best possible light"

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Interview Breakdown:

1:25... Who is Harris O'Malley?
5:00... How Harris reverse-engineered PUA tactics to create genuine, authentic relationships
7:00... The start of Dr. Nerdlove
8:30... Pros and cons of the Pick-Up Community
10:25... Favorite lightbulb moments & success stories
12:10... Where to start to overcome social anxiety
15:20... How to use logic and exposure therapy to face your fears
18:45... Creating the perfect approach and conversation opening
20:15... Why listening is one of the most important conversational tools
24:10... It's time for you to get out of your own way
26:45... Top 3 communication skills needed today
28:45... Two types of terrible first dates
33:15... The worst mistakes you can make during a first impression
35:15... Who is an inspiration to you?
39:00... Book Recommendations {Sex at Dawn/What Do Women Want/How to Work A Room/The Charisma Myth}
41:30... Sex, Persuasion, & Pop Culture
43:50... Why you need to discover what you really want before pursuing it
44:40... If you could have a conversation with anyone
46:00... How to stay in touch with Dr. Nerdlove
47:30... Final words of wisdom

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