Boundaries for The Holidays

Описание: Struggling to maintain your peace during the holidays? Let's change that. Here’s how to hold firm to your boundaries:

No Mediator: 'I'm sorry, but I can't play the mediator this year. If you're going to argue, kindly take it outside and work it out yourselves.'

Emotional Safety: 'Holidays can be emotionally charged for me around my family. When I feel strong enough to protect you, myself, and the relationship that is growing between us, I will invite you to come with me.'

Healthy Eating: 'I'm working on my relationship with food. Eating more than I need makes me feel sick, and I'm not doing it this year.'

Love Life Privacy: 'My love life is private and not up for discussion. I'll let you know when things get serious.'

Appearance Comments Off-Limits: 'Comments about my physical appearance are off limits this year. Even compliments make me feel self-conscious.'

Consent for Children: 'My child is learning about consent and comfortable touch. Please ask if they want to be hugged or kissed first.'

Family Time: 'This year, we decided to stay home and spend quality time as a family. We will FaceTime after breakfast.'

Remember, it's okay to feel pressure when maintaining your boundaries. Just breathe, stand firm, and remember why you set them in the first place. You're doing this for your well-being.

Whats the biggest boundary you are determined to hold this season? Let me know!"