Bill & Kristi Gaultiere on Emotional Health, Empathy, and Sustainable Ministry

Описание: What happens when pastors care for everyone else—but neglect their own soul?



In this episode, Loren talks with Bill and Kristi Gaultiere, founders of Soul Shepherding and co-authors of Deeply Loved: Receiving and Reflecting God’s Great Empathy for You. Together, they explore why emotional health is not optional for Christian leaders—and why empathy begins with receiving God’s love, not just offering it to others. Drawing from decades of experience in psychology, spiritual direction, and ministry leadership, the Gaultieres unpack the difference between empathy and indulgence, how unaddressed shame leads to burnout, and why pastors must have a safe place to be listened to and prayed for.



They also discuss:




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Why emotions are gifts—but terrible masters




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The danger of processing unresolved wounds from the platform




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Burnout warning signs every pastor should recognize




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Compassion fatigue and isolation in ministry




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Why leaders must receive pastoral care, not just provide it






This conversation is a candid and practical guide for church leaders who want their ministry to flow from healing and authenticity rather than exhaustion and performance.



 



Bill is a psychologist (PhD) and ordained pastor and Kristi is a licensed professional counselor (PsyD). Together they lead Soul Shepherding, which is a nonprofit ministry to help pastors, leaders, churches, and others to go deeper with Jesus in emotional health and loving leadership. They lead immersive retreats that integrate Jesus-centered psychology and spiritual formation. Participants have the option to earn a Certificate in Spiritual Direction to improve their relationship skills and earn side income as a spiritual director or coach. They are authors of a number of soul care books, including Journey of the Soul, which was #1 on Amazon in Christian Counseling, and Healthy Feelings, Thriving Faith. Their newest book is Deeply Loved: Receiving and Reflecting God’s Great Empathy for You.



Bill and Kristi have provided over 100,000 hours helping clients in therapy or spiritual direction. They were also personally mentored by Dallas and Jane Willard for many years. They have developed a unique approach to spiritual direction that is informed by their Jesus-centered psychology. Their two-year Certificate in Spiritual Direction training program is a hybrid of in person retreats and online training (or it can be completed 100% online) and currently has over 150 students participating. 



 



Mentioned Resources:



🌐 Their Website: www.soulshepherding.org (http://www.soulshepherding.org/)



🌐 YouTube:    / billgaultiere  



📱 Instagram & FB: @soulshepherding (  / soulshepherding  )



🎧 Episodes Referenced: Chuck DeGroat (https://pod.link/1520833937/episode/Z...)



🎧 Episodes Referenced: Josh Packard (https://pod.link/1520833937/episode/Z...)



🎧 Episodes Referenced: Tara Beth Leach (https://pod.link/1520833937/episode/Z...)



 



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